Scott Brown (Director of the NCFIC) has just completed a Family Worship resource titled, “Journey Through the Bible”. Here’s what he has to say about it…
Journey Through the Bible came about from our family worship times as we read the Bible together as a family.
As our children were growing up, our family made it our practice to read the Bible from cover to cover. We did this for many years. Some of our children learned to read by reading progressively more words as we read the Bible together.
We took turns reading going around the circle. The little ones would repeat one or two words that we coached them to pronounce. Those who could read would read one to five verses and the best readers would read five verses each. We would read around four chapters per day, usually in the morning.
As each year passed, I kept adding to a document which contained introductory information about each book. I used this document to give my family background information for each book and to record the things I felt were important about it. By the time our children were adults, I had over 400 pages of notes. These notes documented the following kinds of information:
- The historical context of each book of the Bible.
- The questions I asked them.
- An explanation of the meaning of each book.
- A list of the important matters of each book.
- A list of key memory verses.
- A basic outline of each book
This book is a compilation of these notes as well as notes I collected as I studied these books on my own and as I preached through them over the years.
JOURNEY THROUGH THE BIBLE IS AVAILABLE NOW – IF YOU WOULD LIKE TO ORDER A COPY, PLEASE CONTACT US, OR YOU CAN ORDER DIRECT FROM THE NCFIC ONLINE STORE HERE. We may be able to get a deal on shipping if there is interest in a bulk order.
Watch the video below for more info…
This is part 8 of a series of posts I’ve been sending out every Friday, relevant to the theme of this year’s ENGAGE Family Discipleship & Home Education Conference (only 2 weeks to go for Christchurch, 3 for Auckland!!!). Here goes with the eighth post…
Living a Grace-Paced Life in a Crazy-Paced World…
“Saying Yes, Saying No”.
Deuteronomy 6:6-7 NKJV – 6 “And these words which I command you today shall be in your heart. 7 “You shall teach them diligently to your children, and shall talk of them when you sit in your house, when you walk by the way, when you lie down, and when you rise up.
In the last post, we talked about the cost of crazy-busy, and how the actions we take or fail to take due to being busy and distracted, can have long lasting and costly consequences. Today, we will be looking at the importance of safeguarding time with our spouse and children.
The Reason We Can’t Say No
I remember hearing a phrase many years ago, that stopped me in my tracks and lodged itself into my memory banks for good. I can’t remember where I was at the time, or who said it, but it was simply this, “The reason we can’t say no, is because we don’t have a big enough yes”.
This really spoke to me, as early in our married life I always felt I had to justify why I couldn’t do a certain thing for someone, or take on a commitment – especially if that time in which I was needed was “spare” time.
After all, if I have spare time, why would I say no?
It always felt much easier to say no when I had something “important” happening already, but if I was just “at home” with Becky and the children, I felt uneasy about that being a reason to say no.
Maybe you can relate?
Maybe you are the type of man or woman who others speak of by saying, “they would do anything for anyone”.
I don’t want to burst anyone’s bubble, but that’s not always a noble description, and sometimes it can indicate a flaw which needs addressing.
Quality or Quantity?
Quality time is never a substitute for quantity of time. This is simply because quality time, can only ever come from a quantity of time. Furthermore, it is in the “normal” moments we spend together as a family (“sit in your house”, “walk by the way” – Deut 6:7) that we get to normalise God’s Word, God’s presence, and God’s glory – so our children don’t just think that only kicks in on Sunday mornings.
Quality time involves bringing God into every aspect of life, naturally, joyfully, yet intentionally.
“The reason we can’t say no, is because we don’t have a big enough yes”
Yes, we should desire to be busy and productive for the Lord, but fruitful and effective ministry will only ever flow from a family environment in which much time, affection, energy, and emotion is invested.
If you want to read a sobering account of a man who said “yes” to the needs of others but at the same time said “no” to the needs of his family – with devastating consequences – click here to read the story of Bob Pierce.
Be Proactive, Not Reactive
So don’t feel guilty by saying no to a task or commitment, because you had planned to just “be” with your spouse or children.
Don’t feel like you have to justify spending your time this way, or even explain it. I used to do this, now I just say, “sorry I’m not available that night”.
Be proactive with time spent with your spouse and children, not reactive. To be reactive means we have seasons of neglect, broken only by erratic, pre-crisis circumstances. To be proactive means we are saying a big “yes”, to simply being with our family, which makes it easier to say “no” when we need to.
Of course, it needs to be said there is a time to say “yes” – even when it’s sacrificial for us, our spouse and our children. However, when it is the exception, not the norm, and when other priorities are in place, our families don’t suffer the consequences of sustained neglect.
A family good at being together will be good at doing together.
Part 1 – “It is Finished!”
Part 2 – “Intention vs Intentions”
Part 3 – “The Performance Trap”
Part 4 – “Slowing Down to Speed Up”
Part 5 – “Thermometer or Thermostat?”
Part 6 – “Our Enemy: Distraction”
Part 7 – “The Cost of Crazy-Busy”